Does A More Equal Marriage Mean Less Sex

[vt]

http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/09/ma...ex.html?src=me

Only do the Manly things around the house, not the dishes or laundry!

This explains why Fifty Shades Of Gray was so popular. Woman don't want Wussy Men!

Sixty Minutes recognizes the physical differences:

http://www.cbsnews.com/videos/sex-ma...d-drug-dosage/

The psychological differences make sense too.

Don't be a Wussy! Clean up the garage! Take the tools and fix something!
Don't forget to wear something that shows muscles!

This Does NOT mean men discriminate against women or mistreat them. Women are in just about every part of the workforce, and in some cases some of them are stronger than quite a few men.
Equality of the sexes was important years ago; this just recognizes that there are psychological differences that affect attraction.

And men should always be gentlemen.

[gwynedd1]

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http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/09/ma...ex.html?src=me

Only do the Manly things around the house, not the dishes or laundry!

This explains why Fifty Shades Of Gray was so popular. Woman don't want Wussy Men!

Sixty Minutes recognizes the physical differences:

http://www.cbsnews.com/videos/sex-ma...d-drug-dosage/

The psychological differences make sense too.

Don't be a Wussy! Clean up the garage! Take the tools and fix something!
Don't forget to wear something that shows muscles!

This Does NOT mean men discriminate against women or mistreat them. Women are in just about every part of the workforce, and in some cases some of them are stronger than quite a few men.
Equality of the sexes was important years ago; this just recognizes that there are psychological differences that affect attraction.

And men should always be gentlemen.

I do the dishes, but more or less by fixing the dish washer which had a leaky intake valve.


I never bothered to listen to any of the equality crap. Good luck to any babe that was equal to me yesterday because I have already moved on and made the old me obsolete.

The Story of O already covered 50 shades of Gray years ago..

The only thing that does indeed ruin my sex life is the flu.

[ST]

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http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/09/ma...ex.html?src=me

Good article - thanks for posting it. Over the past few years it occurred to me how feminizing marriage is for men, and how having children is even more feminizing, even if the husband works and the wife stays home with the kids. Things never used to be that way, ergo the market for tv shows, albeit somewhat exaggerated in form esp. infidelity wise, but extraordinarily appealing for many men to watch men act as men (Ray Donavan, Mad Men, etc...), as perhaps men were a generation or two ago .

[jiimbergin]

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my short answer to the question is NO! at least in my experience

[don]

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The gender breakdowns were interesting.

Gay male couples had the most sex.

Lesbian couples the least.

Heteros split the difference.

Gay couples assumed a feminine and a masculine role within the relationship. Lesbians didn't. (These, of course, are generalities)

Speaking for myself, I like my wife when she's aggressive . . . but not too aggressive

[shiny!]

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I never bothered to listen to any of the equality crap.

The reality that women are human beings and therefor entitled to equal respect and opportunity is crap? Hmmmmm...

Good luck to any babe that was equal to me yesterday because I have already moved on and made the old me obsolete.

And by "babe" you're including men in that statement as well, right?

Give a listen to this crap. It's brilliant. And funny:

"You don't have to hate someone to destroy them. You just have to not get it."

[gwynedd1]

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The reality that women are human beings and therefor entitled to equal respect and opportunity is crap? Hmmmmm...

Do not define my statements as you please. That alright with you? Would you like me to assume that Hmmmmm stood for your bowels noisily stirring?

You are not my equal. In fact I do not even believe in the concept. So to ask me to consider us equal is like asking a Muhammadan out for a night out of binge drinking and munching on pork rinds. We are not even equal under the law.

And by "babe" you're including men in that statement as well, right?

I don't call men babe lest they get the wrong idea. So no, hell no.

Give a listen to this crap. It's brilliant. And funny:

No, I refuse just to annoy you

You are not my equal in stubbornness, hubris or arrogance. Give up while you can.

"You don't have to hate someone to destroy them. You just have to not get it."

All I can tell you is nature did not create two sexes for the sake of equality, and babe, I live and die by knowing nature because I'd be dead if I didn't. One reason why I knew I could never be a feminist is because all they talk about is equality. I want to dominate my environment, succeed, excel and win all the time. I'd hate equality if I ever deluded myself to believe it existed.


Look at your message:

"Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."

That is exactly the kind of nice , decent, and socially responsible statement that men rarely make. I'd rather tell you to get lost sarcastically expecting you to take it as a sign of affection and as a compliment(works better in person naturally). God help you if I told you to have "a nice day". It would mean I hate you. Still equal are we?

[BadJuju]

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gwyn: I'm going to be honest, buddy. That Darwinian attitude is a real good way to get your dick stomped into the dirt in the real world. Because there's always someone or something bigger or badder than you are. You should be grateful for the modern movements for equality and all those other fanciful little things because otherwise you'd probably be a corpse somewhere by now.

[jiimbergin]

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gwyn: I'm going to be honest, buddy. That Darwinian attitude is a real good way to get your dick stomped into the dirt in the real world. Because there's always someone or something bigger or badder than you are. You should be grateful for the modern movements for equality and all those other fanciful little things because otherwise you'd probably be a corpse somewhere by now.

BadJuju, you and I do not agree a lot, but I completely agree with you here!

[shiny!]

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That "Hmmmmm... " was the sound of me re-evaluating my opinion of your social intelligence and character, and not in a favorable way.

"Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."

That is exactly the kind of nice , decent, and socially responsible statement that men rarely make.

And the world is a sadder, more miserable place because of that.

As for the rest of your diatribe and anything else you might have to say on this subject, I'm not even going to waste my time in dignifying it with a response. Enjoy your freedom to be as stubborn, prideful, arrogant and rude as you please.

[jiimbergin]

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shiny!,

Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.

Even though I am a man, I have truly tried to live just like this. And I have been extremely successful in my life in spite of that

[jk]

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gwyn: I'm going to be honest, buddy. That Darwinian attitude is a real good way to get your dick stomped into the dirt in the real world. Because there's always someone or something bigger or badder than you are. You should be grateful for the modern movements for equality and all those other fanciful little things because otherwise you'd probably be a corpse somewhere by now.

well said.

[gwynedd1]

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gwyn: I'm going to be honest, buddy. That Darwinian attitude is a real good way to get your dick stomped into the dirt in the real world. Because there's always someone or something bigger or badder than you are. You should be grateful for the modern movements for equality and all those other fanciful little things because otherwise you'd probably be a corpse somewhere by now.

Then why are you opposing me, BadJuju? Should you not be more agreeable? Suppose we were in the same room if you said that to me? A spoken philosophy, not consistent with behavior is false. You are attempting to win the argument in quite Darwinian fashion.

And great if someone is bigger and badder than I am. Why is this a threat to you? One of the most disappointing things that have happened to me is when I win. When I was beaten in chess a few years ago I was woken up and began to play more and refine my game. When I faced my opponent again, I routinely won and we both lost interest because he wasn't winning and I wasn't losing. I love to lose because it makes me compete. I hate having no world to conquer. That is one reason why I have often been considered good at some of the things I do. Too bad it isn't something that fits well into a business or I'd be very wealthy. Though I am still good at what I do and well paid enough. I don't settle for equality , but I am happy and admire those that beat me. I welcome it. Yet for you this all means domination and violence. You don't get it at all.

And to be perfectly honest BadJuju, buddy, you have no fire , drive or pride or so it would seem to me.


And now that I am watching couples figure skating with my lovely wife, who absolutely embraces gender roles because she like to leave the hard dirty work to me, why don't I see a single lift for a woman picking up the man? What's going on here? Where is the equality? Gender equalism is stupid BadJuju, and I fear it will ruin your love life. But by all mean love women as I do.

[BadJuju]

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BadJuju, you and I do not agree a lot, but I completely agree with you here!

Don't get your hopes up, though. The reality is that people aren't equal. They never will be equal. And attitudes such as his are not only valid to have, they are not wrong. This universe is harsh, unforgiving, and utterly indifferent to our moral quandaries. I know you disagree with that, but assuming it is true, it means gwynedd's statements have merit. Even in spite of their lack of logic when taken to their dark conclusion in which mere worms like him are squished by greater things still.

Would I personally like shiny's version? Yeah, I would, but it isn't happening. There is no one coming to make the universe a better place to be except us. Look around you at your fellow man: the only logical conclusion to make is that your fantasies are just that.

[jk]

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Then why are you opposing me BadJuju? Should you not be more agreeable? Suppose we were in the same room if you said that to me?

And great if someone is bigger and badder than I am. One of the most disappointing things that have happened to me is when I win. When I was beaten in chess a few years ago I was woken up and began to play more and refine my game. When I faced my opponent again, I routinely won and we both lost interest because he wasn't winning and I wasn't losing. I love to lose because it make me compete. I hate having no world to conquer. That is one reason why I have often been considered good at some of the things I do. Too bad it isn't something that fits well into a business. I don't settle for equality , but I am happy and admire those that beat me. I welcome it. Yet for you this all means domination and violence. You don't get it at all.

And to be perfectly honest BadJuju, buddy, you have no fire , drive or pride or so it would seem to me.


And now that I am watching couples figure skating with my lovely wife, who absolutely embraces gender roles because she like to leave the hard dirty work to me, why don't I see a single lift for a woman picking up the man? What's going on here? Where is the equality? Gender equalism is stupid BadJuju, and I fear it will ruin your love life. But by all mean love women as I do.

what "attitude"! clearly you enjoy it, at least in print, here, on the web, maybe even in real life. it's not clear to me whether it's meant to be impressive in some fashion, or just hostile. why bother to strut your stuff? who are you trying to impress? and why?