I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

[tsetsefly]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

You probably see little value in most social/relgious constructs...which sort of leaves you with a revival of the agnostic/secular consumer society to have faith in... :-)

1. Yes, most are made to try to control society to a degree.
2. Why must it be a secular consumer society, I dont know I see alot of "prosperity preaching"going on, you God wants us alll to be rich, and then they spend like it.

While were on it, monogamy is also a social/religious construct...

[seanm123]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

Lots of illegitimate babies born in the United States by unwed mothers around 40% these days. Something tells me too many Men aren't taking
care of their responsibilities. I should not have to pay for the care and feeding of ever other bastard born these days, or have to teach every other little boy how to play catch or every other little girl her how to ride a bicycle, so if you aren't going to go out and get married or remarried and suffer the responsibilities of life with the rest of us poor guys (and I do mean poor raising kids is expensive) do us all favor and get your twig and berries tied.

//Rant Off

[tsetsefly]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

Lots of illegitimate babies born in the United States by unwed mothers around 40% these days. Something tells me too many Men aren't taking
care of their responsibilities. I should not have to pay for the care and feeding of ever other bastard born these days, or have to teach every other little boy how to play catch or every other little girl her how to ride a bicycle, so if you aren't going to go out and get married or remarried and suffer the responsibilities of life with the rest of us poor guys (and I do mean poor raising kids is expensive) do us all favor and get your twig and berries tied.

//Rant Off

Or maybe not enough people are willing to do an abortion. Too many people who shouldn't be having kids are having them, and thanks to religion once pregnant, not many consider abortion.

[seanm123]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

Men can't get an abortion. I am laying blame for the bastard on them the unwed moms did not get knocked up by God.

[karim0028]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

Men can't get an abortion. I am laying blame for the bastard on them the unwed moms did not get knocked up by God.

Hate to break it to ya, but it takes two to tango... Its not like the man is the guilty party and the girl is just innocent... Asking the guy to get cut is fine if he wants to, but that is also something i would not consider doing... Its called take a pill, wear a rubber and "pray" you dont get knocked up.

[seanm123]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

Which part of I don't want to pay for your bastard don't you get? Something like 62% of custodial mothers do not receive child support, whether they can't find the father, don't want support or otherwise. I don't want to be saddled with paying for you and yours period. All I ask if you get fixed if you cannot be responsible. I would be happy to pay to get you fixed and even toss in a free vacuum, toaster and a vacation to go with it.

[karim0028]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

Which part of I don't want to pay for your bastard don't you get? Something like 62% of custodial mothers do not receive child support, whether they can't find the father, don't want support or otherwise. I don't want to be saddled with paying for you and yours period. All I ask if you get fixed if you cannot be responsible. I would be happy to pay to get you fixed and even toss in a free vacuum, toaster and a vacation to go with it.

I can afford to get fixed, thank you very much I just wont do it! You dont wanna pay for it, then change the system... Or get girls to take the morning after pill....

Its not a one way issue. The girl has as much responsibility as the guy, its not exactly a virginal birth...

BTW, i am totally yanking your chain Dont take it personally.

[sunskyfan]

Re: I Don'T: Marriage in the New Normal

I am already fixed. Can I have the vacuum, toaster and vacation anyway ? I think I have a receipt here somewhere ;).