To My Fellow iTulipers

[nitroglycol]

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Sad to hear it. Take care.

[jimmygu3]

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I assume a number of us still have our parents alive and have are own children as well. We hope the latter outlive us, while wishing our parents live forever. Of course it doesn't work that way.

I'm from New York, live in the SF Bay Area. My Mom is dying. I go home this weekend to say goodbye.

My Dad, 83, has been saying his for a few weeks, recounting their early courtship days. The time they dove off the dam and her engagement ring slipped off her finger. Down and down they went, chasing the ring deep into the reservoir. They thought their lungs would burst coming to the surface.

They had the ring.

Stay the course, men (and the few lovelies that visit our site). I'll be singing in my mother's ear- it's the Irish in me- a song she often sang in my childhood, as she did her household chores.

The old Doris Day chestnut, Que Sera, Sera, from Hitchcock's flick.

It's as fitting as any.

Whatever will be, will be.

Thanks, 'tulipers.

So sorry to hear about your mom, Don. Seems like you have an excellent attitude about this difficult situation. My $.02: Don't underestimate how hard it will be for your dad when she does pass. I'm sure you can help him through.

-Jimmy

[skyson]

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My mother died young, and never get to see her grand kids.

Now, having my own two little children, I suddenly realize how little I have done for my parents.

Don, see your father often. I am sure that would be the most enjoyable thing you could give to your dad...

[BobinSFCA]

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It sounds like you came from good Irish stock; hang in there Don. You will undoubtedly be a rock for your family. I went through something similar with my dad a few years back, and the stress can be very overwhelming. My prayers are with you and your family.

[jiimbergin]

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Glad you got a chance to see your Mom. Two years ago I was 30 minutes late when my Dad died. He went down hill quickly and we lived 500 miles away.

May God bless you
Jim

[don]

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Thank you, iTulipers, for all the support. It was needed, wanted and deeply appreciated. You guys are the best.

[Mega]

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My Mum & Dad are the same age Don, i feel for you as it will be a path that in short time i must follow.

May your God go with you.
Mike

[don]

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Thanks Mike. Another iTulip prince.